What does it mean to enjoy the process while going through an illness, the loss of a relative, the loss of a job, a home, and so much more. What does it truly mean to enjoy when death becomes real to you? I have asked this question to myself for the past 8 months after being diagnosed with Cancer. So many good answers came out of this, so many good things have come out after being diagnosed with this illness. In the past I would not have been able to answer this question for you because I was too busy trying to trying to make a future, and was not being present in the moment of it all. I was too busy trying to speed up the process, instead of enjoying it. The process in my own words is what we call the journey, the good but also the bad, the trying moments in our lives that we try to escape. We as humans don't like to feel pain, loneliness, or anything that causes a shift in our lives right? We escape the process of the 'bad moment...